1. Friendship to me personally, is more than just a
relationship. It is an unfettered, undisputed bond between persons who (though they
may not be blood related) are so closely knitted that they could be mistaken as
being relatives. With that being said, it can already be recognized that a great
deal of value is placed on friendship because it is my friends that help to
motivate me each day.
2. 2. Though I have had several childhood friends and
best friends, to be specific, none of them are still my best friends today. This
is because we lost communication after we dispersed to different schools.
3. 3.Without loyalty proper relationships would not
exist and this is in my opinion. Loyalty is a very important principle that I build
my life on as I strive to maintain good relationships with people and most of
all a good relationship with God. With such an obligation to Him, loyalty takes
up an even greater roll and therefore means a lot to me.
4. 4.If my best friend were to betray me I would not
be happy, in fact, I would be terribly upset. However, depending on the extent
of the betrayal there wouldn’t be much to do but to restrain our friendship and
slowly rebuild it.
5. 5.Around last year I had a best friend who was
male and be built a very strong friendship. However, our friendship manifested
into something more-we began liking each other. This is one of the cons of
being best friends with someone of the opposite sex. Furthermore, our
friendship became much more and things began to develop to a point where we
were basically dating. After a month or so I found out that he liked my best
friend. Then I was told that he only wanted her and he was using me until he
got to her and I believed and basically through a silent tantrum. However, I later
found out that that was not the case I was just a victim or circumstance.
6. 6. I cannot say if I was ever cheated on because I never
witnessed such actions.
7. 7. If the betrayer was my best friend then that
means that he/she disregarded the loyalty factor that should have existed in
our relationship and I would have to break off the friendship.
8. 8.About a year ago I would probably operate on the
principle ‘an eye for an eye’ when it comes to payback. However after
undergoing spiritual change I would not seek to payback anyone.
9. 9.A few years ago my friend told me that she liked
a guy and me and that guy became best friends a while after that. During our friendship
she made it seem as though she did not like him anymore and I began to like
him. I ensured that I told her and she upheld a ‘don’t care’ façade. So I continued
in my relationship with the guy only to realize that she still liked him and
was hurting terribly from it.
10. I would say that I already received the
punishment that I would give to myself because I went through heart ache when I
lost her as friend. I had many sleepless nights and teary mornings but
fortunately she is now my close friend again.
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